Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Slavery in 2010

http://blog.sojo.net/2010/11/26/underwear-for-a-cause/

“the systems of our world ought to reflect the ideals of our faith; that being, to love and respect the people who grow our food, make our clothes, and work in so many different ways to provide us the things and services we use every day.”


The above blog explains very well a wonderful rising trend. This fair trade trend embodies support of a cause much bigger than high fructose corn syrup; this is people's lives. As we have checked ingredients at the store trying to make healthier decisions for what we put into our body, we have also tried to buy fair trade. Did you know there are actually more slaves in the world today than there were in Abraham Lincoln's time? All kinds of slaves: mostly women and children but also men enslaved by sweat shops, prostitution, brothels, blackmail, other humans who have purchased them- yes, purchased. This is solidly heart breaking. Did you know that sex slaves will be brought in for the super bowl? IN DALLAS? Yes, there is slavery in Texas. It's worldwide. It's nauseating. 


Here is another website about the awful facts of slavery today. I highly encourage you to read and pray. I have copied and pasted a few quotes from this site below the link.


The slaveholder acts swiftly to take complete control of the child’s life. Passports, birth certificates, national identity cards, and any other documents of citizenship are stripped from the child’s possession. The child is kept closely guarded and locked in a room when not accompanied. Even if escape were possible, the child has no money, probably does not speak the local language, and does not know to whom he or she could turn for help. Given their past experience, slave children would not instinctively trust public officials or the police.

The slaveholder also generally manipulates a relationship of financial dependence with the child. Basic life necessities like food, clothing, and shelter are charged to the child’s “account.” Until that money is repaid, the child is obligated to continue in the slaveholder’s service.

Slaveholders will buttress these social controls with the constant threat of violence. Almost all trafficked children will testify that they were victims of an extreme act of violence within the first forty-eight hours of their abduction. Whether through rape or brutal beatings, slaveholders use violence to imprint their dominance. In the logic of the trafficking world, a terrified child is a compliant child. The slaveholder therefore will never let the child slip out of a state of terror…  If a client ever complains that the sex slave was less than accommodating, swift and brutal punishment will be meted out.


What if this were you? Forget that, what if this were your daughter?
We must do something.

PRAY.

Perhaps through prayer, the Lord will enable you and I with ideas, information, abilities, to advocate for the broken spirits of these forgotten children of God. These children and people have souls like every other human being. They are not less because of their origin, language, age, color, faith background, or because they are strangers. Please, fight for them. Pray for them. Pay the extra money for fair trade goods and ensure that the hands that created this product received what is fair so they can support their family. Raise and donate money to a cause already seeking to free those in bondage and expose the hidden world of slavery. Share your ideas with others; shed light in the darkness.

Check out this website http://www.transfairusa.org/content/WhereToBuy/
Google: fair trade, human trafficking
Look for these symbols:

Fair trade UK
Fair trade US
Fair trade certified
Fair trade federation

Holy Moly! Kraft, you must be kidding!

I recently contacted a few of my past favorite companies through their "Contact us" section on their websites. I was not rude or tacky, but I informed them that we have eliminated high fructose corn syrup from our family diet and which means I have stopped purchasing products like Yoplait light yogurt, Kellogs Nutrigrain bars, Honey Maid graham crackers, V8 Splash, etc. My purpose in contacting these major companies was to be a voice for natural in hopes that other people may do the same, followed by changes in processed foods for the better health of the overall consumer. That being said, each company wrote me back with a similar gist: appreciative of my feed back but no immediate plans of changing their recipes. Still, I was a little surprised at the response from Nabisco, Kraft. Feel free to read for yourself below. The enlarged print was my doing to draw attention to the statement by the company.

Thank You for Contacting Us!
Hi Kristyn,
Thank you for visiting http://www.nabiscoworld.com.
Our consumers' safety and health are our number one priority, and we would not allow ingredients into our products that we believe would not be safe for consumption.
Experts agree that there are no nutritional differences among regular sugar and high fructose corn syrup, and the body uses all types of sugar in the same way.
We use high fructose corn syrup because of its stability, consistency and functionality, as well as its cost.
Kraft offers consumers a wide range of products to suit consumers' needs -- some contain sugar, others high fructose corn syrup or non-nutritive sweeteners, such as Aspartame - and these are clearly listed on the product's list of ingredients for consumers' convenience.
If you would like to read more about HFCS, please visit the International Food Information Council's website: www.ific.org
If you haven’t done so already, please add our site to your favorites and visit us again soon!
Kim McMiller
Associate Director, Consumer Relations








Click here to watch this juicy juice commercial. Makes me smile every time!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Dying safely

*Inspired by a quote from Shane Claiborne.

Just a thought-
Why do we try so hard to arrive at death safely?
I never thought about it like that before.
Do you think we miss out in the meantime?
I know I tamed up a little when I fell in love with my husband and I became safe when I became a mom. I wouldn't be true to myself though if I only lived by trying not to die. I didn't used to be a fearful person, but I am wondering if I have become one. I don't plan on buying a motorcycle today, but I am self-searching.
What would you do if you weren't trying to be safe?
Not for the sake of being dangerous.
Honestly, what would you do if you weren't held back by the fear of death?
What an exciting day dream for today!


Monday, November 22, 2010

Arnold Family Update

It's hard to believe...

We have semi-moved to Ruidoso, New Mexico! We will celebrate our full move when we are holding the keys attached to the house with the "for-sale" sign covered by the "contract pending" sign in the front yard of the house with the stylish, red front door. We are currently "suffering" in the meantime in the cutest cabin I've ever seen, so generously supplied by Dr. Bob and Lynn Coats of central TX.

It's hard to believe...

How blessed we have been in this process of finding a permanent home and church family. From the Coats' cabin that just happened to be available for our complete take-over and occupancy for over a month, to the very first phone call from the pastor search committee from First Christian Church, Ruidoso. It feels as though the planets have aligned and the universe has created a domino effect of events falling right into place. Forget thanking our lucky stars, we are praising God for answered prayers and thanking God for our many blessings while asking God, who are we to be so blessed by you?

It's hard to believe...

Ryan was employed by P.F. Chang's for approximately three weeks. The day he went looking for a service job, he walked out the door and we both felt beaten. We threw a little party the day he was able to quit the restaurant industry last year and to go back to waiting tables after finishing his masters and accruing that much more debt made our world feel scary and uncertain. (My stress blog was written during this time.) Our budget was so tight, we didn't even order lettuce wraps with his 20% employee discount, yet Ryan diligently dressed in his black ninja uniform daily and went to work because it was the only thing he could do as we earnestly prayed for our future. Within three weeks, he was preaching in view of a call before a lovely congregation who voted that day to bring him on as their new senior minister. All this is less than a month.

It's hard to believe...

Ryan and I used to day dream together in our 600 sq. ft., bug-infested, non-insulated, duplex of a first home located in inner-city, Waco, TX about living in a small mountain town. Honestly, what are the chances of that dream coming true for a young family still in seminary so far away from any mountains at all in more ways than just distance?

It's hard to believe...

How much we love our one-year-old son. I don't know which part is more unbelievable: this great love we feel, or the birthday party that already happened!

We are so thankful this week as we count our blessing. We are thankful for:

* The Coats' for providing us not only a beautiful place to wait for our home, but temporarily a second vehicle!
* All the prayers. We know word of our family and hopes as we have been in the search and call process traveled (mostly through our moms) and we are grateful to all who heard our story and remembered us in prayer.
* First Christian Church Ruidoso! Our new church home. We have been so welcomed already and we appreciate everyone who has offered to help us through this transition. Especially Paula, Bob, Terri, and Bart for watching Jack while we house hunted. You made finding a home quickly possible!
* The generous gifts we received. You know who you are. While we were without a salary, we were not forgotten. Thank you so much for your generosity and consideration!
* Extended family. We will miss being with all of you this Thanksgiving day but we will see you soon and are thankful that you not only understand why we will not be home for every holiday anymore, but also support this life! Each future visit will be even more special.

I will leave you with a picture of our mountain compliments of google. We will have more pictures to share of our new home as soon as we find our camera.
May you and your family experience the rich blessings and presence of the Lord this week.
Happy Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Fear and Pigs

I don’t think the person who sent me this email reads this blog. But in case you do, please do not take my opinion of this forward personally; thank you for the inspiration.


I recently read an email suggesting if “we” (Americans) bury a pig where a mosque is to be constructed, then the soil would be contaminated thereby thwarting the evil construction plans. I have a few problems with this.


Problem 1:


Animal Rights activists would have a field day all over you for killing a pig for the purpose of annoying another religion. They are hardcore. Let’s just say the rest of the world would be highly entertained for what PETA would consider justice done to you for hurting an animal.


Problem 2:


I am a Christian. I believe Jesus left us examples to follow of how he would have handled situations. The common denominator seems to be love. As far as I can tell, Jesus never tried to make anyone look stupid so he would look smarter. He never protested other religions to prove he was the answer. Jesus spent time with people so they would KNOW him.


I often fail, but I try to filter my motivations by love. If love is not the reason for my choice, then perhaps I need to rethink this.


Erin Edwards, a good friend from college, used to always remind us, “God’s bigger”. She is so right. God is bigger than me, than America, than anything I think I can protect God from.
I do not need to burn a Koran to protect the Bible.
I do not need to protest a mosque to protect the Church.
I do not need to curse Islam to protect Christianity.
God is bigger!
None of these actions would even make it through the filter; there is no love in the background! There is fear. If I believe God is bigger, I do not need to fear. I have not been given a spirit of fear. I will not act on a spirit of fear.


Problem 3:


The most troubling line of the afore-referenced email is, “Americans, put on your thinking caps and let’s find a solution to this problem of a spreading menace to the American way of life!
The “menace” mentioned is Islam.
Due to the apparent rallying of Americans, I have a feeling that the same person who wrote this email also says they believe in the constitution. If that is true, then they must honor freedom of religion.


What if…


(Insert any voice that disagrees with me for the italicized portion.)All those Muslims should just stay in their own country and stop interfering with our American ways and leave my Christianity alone. (This was the gist of the inspirational email.)

This fearful person has missed something. Unless this person is in missionary training to go into Muslim countries with the gospel… do you see where this is going? This person claims to be a Christian, but instead of furthering the gospel, they are misrepresenting it. The incredibly small percentage of foreign missionaries will statistically allow me to guess that our email writer is not in missionary training. I’m not attacking them for that, I am suggesting they use a different lens.


What if…


Instead of running in fear from other religions, we lived out our faith. What a blessing to have America integrated with so many world cultures to celebrate! Dear email writer, do you realize that if you were living like a loving Christian rather than a hateful one, perhaps this fictitious enemy may recognize your “love filter”? Not your “duty filter” where you only go to church because you have to, but your love filter; the motivation by which you live your life and open your mouth to speak or compose your emails.


Do you realize that you don’t have to travel abroad to represent Christ world-wide? By living like a Christian in America, we are globally spreading the gospel. Or globally making the world hate Christians. I could disassociate myself from Christians and Americans alike by calling myself a North Central Western Hemisphere Christ Follower. But what would creating another term solve?


In Conclusion, LOVE. 

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Family Anniversary

From our first family picture to what we have become in such a short year,
we can only repeat, we are so blessed.
Thankful.
Our prayer for our son:
May we
Grow in every way as a family,
Teach you by example,
Love you unconditionally;
May you never
Be afraid of losing our love or
wonder if we are proud of you;
May the Lord
Bless you and keep you.

Happy 1st Birthday 
Jackson Forest Arnold!